In part one of my response to Rebecca Dresser’s paper concerning advance care planning for dementia patients, I used my father’s experience with dementia (he had Alzheimer’s for fifteen years) as a case study, to explain why I would not want to live into the advanced stages of dementia. Without question, during the early to middle stages of dementia, there is some mental capacity, enough perhaps to enjoy living. I have written about my father’s sense of humor in those early days, which lasted about two-thirds of the way through the disease.
The Alzheimer’s Association describes stages of the disease, which were substantially accurate for my father, as well as for others I have known:
In the early stage of Alzheimer’s, a person may function independently. He or she may still drive, work and be part of social activities. Despite this, the person may feel as if he or she is having memory lapses, such as forgetting familiar words or the location of everyday objects.
Friends, family or others close to the individual begin to notice difficulties. During a detailed medical interview, doctors may be able to detect problems in memory or concentration. Common difficulties include:
• Problems coming up with the right word or name
• Trouble remembering names when introduced to new people
• Challenges performing tasks in social or work settings.
• Forgetting material that one has just read
• Losing or misplacing a valuable object
• Increasing trouble with planning or organizing
. . . During the moderate stage of Alzheimer’s, individuals may have greater difficulty performing tasks such as paying bills, but they may still remember significant details about their life. . . .
At this point, symptoms will be noticeable to others and may include:
• Forgetfulness of events or about one’s own personal history
• Feeling moody or withdrawn, especially in socially or mentally challenging situations
• Being unable to recall their own address or telephone number or the high school or college from which they graduated
• Confusion about where they are or what day it is
• The need for help choosing proper clothing for the season or the occasion
• Trouble controlling bladder and bowels in some individuals
• Changes in sleep patterns, such as sleeping during the day and becoming restless at night
• An increased risk of wandering and becoming lost
• Personality and behavioral changes, including suspiciousness and delusions or compulsive, repetitive behavior like hand-wringing or tissue shredding
In the final stage of this disease, individuals lose the ability to respond to their environment, to carry on a conversation and, eventually, to control movement. They may still say words or phrases, but communicating pain becomes difficult. As memory and cognitive skills continue to worsen, significant personality changes may take place and individuals need extensive help with daily activities.
At this stage, individuals may:
• Need round-the-clock assistance with daily activities and personal care
• Lose awareness of recent experiences as well as of their surroundings
• Experience changes in physical abilities, including the ability to walk, sit and, eventually, swallow
• Have increasing difficulty communicating
• Become vulnerable to infections, especially pneumonia
Knowing these descriptions of what to expect were I to have Alzheimer’s, and having observed the course of irreversible dementia over several years in my father and others, I consider myself adequately informed about the condition, something that Dresser claims is not true for most people who wish to cut their lives short in the face of dementia, but she provides no data to support her assertion.
To address Dresser’s contentions, some other basics about dementia should be considered. There are at least four kinds of dementia, other than Alzheimer’s, and each has a different cause; but all forms of dementia result from dysfunction in the cerebral cortex, that part of the brain that performs a key role in memory, attention, perception, cognition, awareness, thought, language, and consciousness.
All forms of irreversible dementia have in common that they result in a nonreversible decline in mental functioning, usually with progressive memory loss, personality changes, and/or impaired reasoning that significantly interferes with daily life. While the causes may be different, the practical outcome for each form of irreversible dementia is similar–eventually, dementia impairs the ability to carry out everyday activities such as driving, household chores, and personal care such as bathing, dressing, toileting, walking, preparing food, often eating, and even sitting, in some cases.
Dresser assumes that one’s “well-being” and “quality of life” are often misjudged by “even well-informed people” who are contemplating dementia in their future. She relies on psychological research that suggests that people are not very good at predicting how they will feel in the future (“affective forecasting”). This research assumes that what is important is what makes us happy. But happiness and how I might otherwise feel is not what drives my decision-making. In all likelihood, I would be a happy, completely demented person if I were given nothing but Texas barbeque and sausage to eat, along with vast quantities of banana nut ice cream. Nevertheless, predicting our emotions in the future is not the main issue or most important in considering our future advance care planning.
Retired Harvard law professor emeritus Norman Cantor has his own reasons for not wanting to live all the way through dementia. He first observes that “the central function of an advance directive” is to empower “a competent person to shape the medical fate of their future demented persona according to personal values and visions of intolerable indignity.” He sums up his reasons for not wanting to live all the way through dementia:
This wish to hasten my post-competence demise is not based on prospective suffering or distress, but rather on my personal vision of intolerable indignity and degradation associated with cognitive dysfunction. For me, it is critical to shape the post-mortem recollections of my loved ones and to preserve the lifetime image as a vital, critically thinking individual that I have strived to cultivate. In addition, it is important to me to avoid being an emotional, physical, or financial burden on my family and friends, even if they would willingly assume such burdens.
For me, enjoying my life and wanting to continue living means that I have cognitive capacity sufficient to read political, legal, historical, and philosophical materials (along with the occasional novel) and think, talk, and write about them. It means that I can have fulfilling relationships with my family and friends. If I can’t do those things, I don’t want to continue to live. Unlike other kinds of disabilities, to which I have adjusted reasonably well, dementia would inevitably rob me of abilities that make my life worth living.
Dresser writes in another article that one branch of psychology–positive psychology–suggests that there are five components of happiness: pleasure, engagement (with some sort of challenging task), relationships, meaning, and accomplishment. It appears to me that only the pleasure category, to a limited extent, would seem to contribute to Dresser’s view of happiness for a person who is in the final stage of dementia.
Dresser makes one other assertion that I believe is entirely incorrect and for which she offers no evidence in support, namely, that demented persons “can still value and appreciate the lives that they are leading.” The very nature of the last stage of Alzheimer’s and most other dementias suggests that the cognitive ability necessary for appreciation of one’s circumstances has disappeared. We lose self-reflection, at least to the extent exhibited by most people who are not affected by dementia, though we may respond in a limited way to familiar music or smells. See The Neuropsychology of Attention, Second Edition (2014), by Richard A. Cohen.
Finally, Dresser asserts that honoring advance directives that call for being allowed to die, whether by foregoing medical treatment or stopping eating and drinking, conflicts “with generally accepted views of our obligations to vulnerable people.” Dresser believes “our moral and legal duties to safeguard the interests of people living with disabilities, support setting limits on the power of advance directives to control the care dementia patients receive” and should override their advance directives.
In making these assertions, Dresser ignores the very purpose of such directives, which is to allow all competent persons to decide about their medical care at the end of life and appoint a surrogate to assure that such directives are followed if they no longer possess decision-making capacity. Dresser asserts that the beliefs and values she sees as predominant in our society should have greater weight than our own decisions about our lives.
By the late 1980s, most states had adopted advance directive laws that recognized the right to direct one’s medical care and treatment. This position was solidified by the 1990 Cruzan decision, in which the Supreme Court concluded that “[t]he principle that a competent person has a constitutionally protected liberty interest in refusing unwanted medical treatment may be inferred from our prior decisions.” This right extends to incompetent persons if their wishes can be reasonably ascertained under appropriate state standards, such as by clear and convincing evidence, for example. A written directive should provide that evidence.
The refusal of unwanted treatment happens regularly with competent cancer patients who refuse treatment. Likewise, we can refuse treatment for treatable conditions such as pneumonia, and we can refuse to be maintained on “life support.” As Cantor has observed, moral claims such as those raised by Dresser “are both unconvincing and counter to the prevailing legal frameworks.” In addition, failing to follow the explicit medical instructions in a person’s advance directive may be tortious conduct with legal remedies, and would be, in my opinion, immoral.
Professor Dresser is simply wrong when she suggests that our constitutional right to execute advance directives and have them followed, even if it will result in our death, should be over-ridden by third parties. The autonomy to decide the course of our life and death is our decision. It should not be that of any other person or group.
Everything you write about refusing medical treatment is true and can spelled out in an advanced directive. It will be honored in all 50 states even if a person has Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia. My three siblings and I did this for our widowed father with advanced Alzheimer’s when he needed a feeding tube. His advanced directive stated that he wanted a feeding tube only as a temporary, restorative measure. So we declined it. But we did not starve or dehydrate him to death. He received IV fluids with dextrose and morphine to keep him comfortable until natural death. There is a line that should never be crossed. Even if an individual asks for a medically-assisted death in a state where it is legal in an advanced directive, but cannot provide adequate informed consent for his/her death at the time, we must opt for life. If there is only a 1% chance that he or she may have changed his or her mind, we have no business ending his or her life.
When nutrition and hydration is discontinued, it is the lack of hydration that results in death, usually between 7 and 14 days. The view that such a directive should not be honored is a substitution of your opinion for that of the other person who makes the directive. It is your moral judgment that “we must opt for life.” I would want my decision honored, regardless of my family’s views about the issue. That is my moral judgment for myself. That is why I have chosen a surrogate decision-maker who will honor my decision. It is my decision, not that of any other person.
That’s what you should do, then. We *did* follow our father’s advanced directive. We opted against the feeding tube because it was contrary to the spirit of his advance of his advanced directive. It was a unanimous decision. Several months before that, he developed aspiration pneumonia. We had it treated because his advanced directive said nothing about refusing antibiotics or similar treatment in his circumstances. It was not a painful treatment and he was expected to recover. We would have honored his DNR and DNI and probably not approved any treatments out of the scope of his nursing home’s geriatric nurse practitioner at the tim, . A year earlier it would have depended on what treatment was recommended. He was a very devout Christian. If we had any doubts, we might have had talked with the nursing home’s chaplain. It was a faith-based facility and the chaplain belonged to the same denomination that he did. We really did want to respect his wishes. Not do too much, nor too little, follow his advanced directive and his faith, even if we might disagree.
Having a family history of Alzheimer’s, I entered an Alzheimer’s study about 20 years ago when they were seeking people in a certain age range without any signs of it. I have a thorough neuropsych work-up annually, after which thus far I’ve always gotten a letter saying I show no signs of dementia. I hope I will get a letter showing any changes while I am still able to end my life on my own terms. Several years after I entered the study, my mother first showed signs of dementia. She was first diagnosed with vascular dementia from an apparent series of mini-strokes of which we were all unaware, and later Alzheimer’s was also diagnosed. She had said for my entire life that she would end her life if she developed dementia, but she never understood that she had it. She was in probably early-end-stage disease when my father shot her and then himself, with her agreement in a lucid moment. But I also had a good friend who had Alzheimer’s and was constantly aware that her mind no longer worked. She also had said she would end her life when the time came, but she waited too long. When she was living in a locked memory care unit, every time I visited she complained about her mind and that her body was fine, and asked me to help her. By that time all I could suggest was VSED, but when I did suggest it, she said, “But I love to eat!” That was the end of that discussion. I could only be glad when she died of natural causes a few months ago. I have completed an advanced directive stating the wish of my competent self for all hydration and nutrition to be stopped for my future incompetent self. My life partner certainly agrees to make sure this is followed, and my back-up plan is a corporate fiduciary who assures me she will do the same.
I am continually puzzled by people (Sue McKeown, Professor Dresser) who wish to interfere in the bedroom, the doctor’s office and the death bed. If you believe in a morality defined by God and the bible, fine, don’t enter into a same sex relationship, don’t have an abortion, and suffer til the last breath is drawn. But respect God’s gift (if such it is) of free-will. Leave my decision making alone!
Ms. Van Sickle,
What you or anyone else do in the privacy of a bedroom is none of my (or anyone else’s) business unless it involves coercion or someone who cannot consent (rape, date rape, an adult(s) forcing a minor to have sex, sex trafficking, etc.) Where did I indicate otherwise? Yes, I am a member of Democrats for Life, but about 30% of Democrats are also pro-life. We also oppose capital punishment. But we choose to remain Democrats because we stand for the rest of what Democrats stand for. Personally, I’d rather do whatever is needed to prevent the need for abortions, like stressing the need for responsible use of contraception for every act of sexual intercourse. And providing more support to help women choose to parent (universal prenatal, labor/delivery and postnatal care; paid maternal/paternal leave regardless of marital status and up to a year of unpaid leave for moms; benefits for part-time workers). Guess that’s the Democrat in me :).
Many people who are pro-life are religious (not just Christians, but also Orthodox Jews and Muslims; not sure about other major world religions); some non-theists are, too. Ever hear of Liz Carr, a disabled woman from the UK. She is an atheist and opposes euthanasia/assisted suicide and writes and speaks in opposition to them, including testifying in the UK Parliament. The advocacy group of disabled individuals who oppose euthanasia/assisted suicide, Not Dead Yet, is not a religious group. A number of atheists and agnostics have made a secular case for opposing euthanasia/assisted suicide, as well as being pro-life on abortion. See secularprolife.org, for an example.
You say that a person’s right to a medically-assisted death (or euthanasia/assisted suicide) affects no one but the person involved. Oh no, it doesn’t. With the cost of caring for people with Alzheimer’s/dementia about to continue to increase if cures are not found, along with society’s general disrespect for older people, no one can’t believe that won’t be true 20 years from now. There will be *enormous* pressure to “let go early” before “you become a burden on society”. After all, you really wouldn’t want to live like that, now would you, dear? Euthanasia is becoming very mainstream in Belgium and The Netherlands for end-stage cancer patients. Why? Not all of them face horribly painful deaths. There is no need for that. But people have been conditioned to believe that it is the “best” way to die. Not necessarily so (probably not even true most of the time), but how will they even know the difference before long?
Do what you need to shorten your life prematurely (legally) some day. But don’t contribute to shaping a society where euthanasia/assisted suicide is seen as the best death. In cases of extreme cases, terminal sedation is an option near the end of life for unrelenting pain instead.
I talked to my local Hospice on the subject of refusing nutrition and hydration. I asked specifically if they would honor that request by me while in their care and would they give me a morphine drip to allow me to sleep until the dehydration killed me. They assured me that they would do that whether in their facility or in my home.
I’m pleased to learn that your Hospice was willing to honor your request. I wonder if that policy is shared by most other Hospices? I also wonder if your Hospice would accept the same request if made by a person who was the patient’s medical power of attorney armed with an Advance Directive which supported the request?
I didn`t ask that question specifically but my feeling is that they would. I base that on one experience of a local man who died there. He was in coma when admitted, had only one living relative, a niece who had his power of attorney and she had IV feeding stopped and a morphine drip until he died. I know this story because this woman sought me out because she knew I was active in the RTD movement. What she wanted to vent and warn about was not Hospice but rather a priest called to give last rites to this man. He refused to do so and berated the niece for “killing her uncle” In checking with Hospice it turns out he was a young priest and didn`t know Hospice practices and they asked the church to explain them to him.